Today is Day 30 of Happiness Month and it is almost over! Can you believe it? This all started at the Secret Society of Happy People and if you want to pop over there and become an Amused Member, you can get a Free 31 Types of Happiness poster. As you can tell by my daily #HappinessHappens tweets and Facebook posts, I’ve been a member for a long, long time!
Today, to add happiness to your life: Sweet! Some days it’s appropriate to stand up for yourself and enforce boundaries…and other days it’s appropriate to be the sweet, loving person you are inside. Choose to be sweet today–and for fun share something sweet (like go out for a piece of pie)!
The word “sweet” can be an adjective (describing you) or a noun. As an adjective, it means:
- Having the pleasant taste characteristic of sugar or honey; not salty, sour, or bitter.
And as a noun, “sweet” means:
- Used as an affectionate form of address to a person one is very fond of: “hello, my sweet”.
Now I realize that when people use the term “sweet” to describe a person they don’t really mean that they taste like sugar or honey! But they may very well mean that the person is not sour or is not bitter, and they may definitely be thinking back to the day when you two called each other affectionate names. So to add some happiness to your life today, take a moment to look in the mirror. Do you act, behave and talk like a sour old grouch? Do you complain or find fault with everything? Are you bitter because life wasn’t “fair” and you didn’t get what you “deserve”? Then today is the day to add happiness by being sweet! Act, behave and talk pleasant. Find one good thing in everything your spouse does or says and then say it out loud to them. Instead of viewing what you “didn’t get” in life, look at what you DID GET!! And demonstrate this “turning over a new leaf” by sharing a sweet dessert with your spouse while you call them by their affectionate name! Sweet as Cherry Pie!
Over the past month, we have gone over all 31 ways to Add Happiness Every Day. You know too often I hear young people say “He doesn’t make me happy” or “I wish she would make me happy” but you know what? Happiness is not something that someone else “makes” you feel. You make choices in your life that can affect your happiness….and ultimately you CHOOSE whether to be happy every day or not. You can also choose to do things that would add happiness to your life every single today.