If your spouse had an affair, how did their affair start? If you were the one who had the affair, how did it start?
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If your spouse had an affair, how did their affair start? If you were the one who had the affair, how did it start?
My husband had three affairs. All three were with employee’s of his. Two were “just sex” and the third was more emotional along with physical. He would have had a fourth, but she declined his advances, called HR and he was fired for sexual harassment.
My husband had the affairs. They were actually a series of one night stands with several different women. I’m not sure how many there were total and I’m not sure he remembers all of the different ones. He recalled 3-4 but I think there were probably more. It began with an addiction to pornography from a young age for him (he found his Dad’s materials). The addiction grew and grew until he was visiting online dating sites seeking sex. I don’t think knowing exactly how many women would ever actually make me feel better. I know enough and that’s all I need to know. Thank you for your ministry! If it were not for sites like yours and other couples we would probably be divorced.