Today is Day 31 of Happiness Month and it is the last day! Can you believe it? This all started at the Secret Society of Happy People and if you want to pop over there and become an Amused Member, you can get a Free 31 Types of Happiness poster. As you can tell by my daily #HappinessHappens tweets and Facebook posts, I’ve been a member for a long, long time!
Today, to add happiness to your life: Vivacious! A person can sit quietly reading and be very happy, but today be someone who bubbles forth with life and vitality. Increase your happiness by breaking out of the “routine” and being full of life!
The word “vivacious” is an adjective, meaning it describes, and it means:
- Attractively lively and animated; lively in temper, conduct, or spirit.
When your spouse has had an affair, it can be easy to fall into the trap of constantly wanting to “work on fixing the marriage” or study about infidelity. But life is not about always “working” and “studying”–sometimes it’s just being full of joie de vivre…the Joy of LIFE!! Today be attractive. Put some COLOR on and be lively. Put on that KNOCK OUT red dress, those pumps (you know the ones) and some shockingly red lipstick and DANCE! Wear a banana and some flowers on your head, wrap a sheet around into a saree, and make him laugh. Or if your a guy, don’t be the man who analyzes the dishes in the sink or the amount of progress you’ve made in the relationship…be the guy who brings home a limo and says “Come on honey we’re going to McDonald’s for dinner!” LOL! For this one day, enjoy life and the person with whom you’re sharing your life.
Over the past month, we have gone over all 31 ways to Add Happiness Every Day. You know too often I hear young people say “He doesn’t make me happy” or “I wish she would make me happy” but you know what? Happiness is not something that someone else “makes” you feel. You make choices in your life that can affect your happiness….and ultimately you CHOOSE whether to be happy every day or not. You can also choose to do things that would add happiness to your life every single today.