FAQs

 Why should I do Telephone Coaching? Won’t I need marriage counseling in a counselor’s office to save my marriage?

There are several amazing benefits of telephone coaching over in-office therapy.  The foremost benefit is that you can coach with an EXPERT who is not in your area!  Some small towns and rural areas do not have coaches in the area that are specially trained in recovering after an affair.  Even in some of the “big cities” of our country, it is hard to find an expert trained specifically for saving marriages…and even more specifically, saving marriages after an affair!  Telephone coaching brings the expert TO YOU.

Another MAJOR benefit is that telephone coaching is discrete and easy-to-get-to!  Driving to an office appointment can mean hassles, frustration, inconvenience and rush-hour traffic.  Walking into a counselor’s office, you might run into a neighbor, friend, or church member!!  Telephone coaching, Can be done in the privacy of your own home.  It is discrete and easy.  You choose the time and date. You can be in your P.J.’s at home, in a dress or three piece suit at work, or you can call from your cell phone when you’re on the run. It’s entirely up to you.  In fact, we’ve discovered that we can help people by telephone that we could never have reached in person. They were either too embarrassed to come to an office, or not motivated enough to make the trip. But by telephone they get all the help they need with complete discretion and very little initial effort. And the results are extraordinary. 

What’s so special about an AffairCare Coach?

AffairCare coaches are PRO-MARRIAGE!!!  We get calls from people who have struggling with the affair on their own for months…or people who have been in “counseling” for years…and they’re making NO progress and are often worse off than they were when they started!  We hear horror stories about individual therapists–and sometimes even pastors and marriage counselors–who have pronounced a marriage “dead on arrival” after just one session!  We hear about friends and relatives who don’t want to see the Loyal Spouse (LS) hurting anymore who encourage the LS to just “move on” or “get a life.” You might feel as if you’re the only one in the world who believes your marriage is worth saving, but now, you’re not alone. We believe marriage is a life-long covenant that is sanctified in the eyes of God.  We also believe that most divorces in our country are unnecessary. We see people and relationships change all the time. We know yours can too.

How do AffairCare coaches make marriages happy and loving again?
You aren’t born knowing how to have great relationships; you have to learn how. We’re convinced that most divorces happen because people simply don’t have the skills to find their way out of trying and frustrating marital problems. AffairCare coaches are experienced coaching professionals who can teach you the tools you need to improve communication and break free from hurtful relationship ruts. You’ll become your own relationship expert!

Is coaching confidential?  Do coaches have ethics and guidelines?
Your call to an AffairCare coach is strictly confidential.  Just like counselors and therapists, coaches have ethical statements and guidelines, and those will be shared with you in your first session.  But rest assured that confidentiality is the cornerstone of a deep coaching relationship.